Ok. Here are the steps that I have taken. I haven't gotten my wii remote to sync with my computer at all...(not even once).
1. Installed the CD that came with my Rocketfish USB bluetooth adapter. The adapter was able to see that I had a remote in the room, but the blue lights on the remote would never stay on....they would just flash and then turn off.
2. I then began looking online and saw that several people were having the same problem. It seemed that everyone was saying DO NOT use the installation cd with this specific bluetooth adapter, therefore, I un-installed it.
3. I then found my way to this website and after looking around for awhile, I found this thread
http://www.wiimoteproject.com/bluetooth-and-connectivity-help-center/'no-wiimotes-found-in-hid-device-list'-error-for-boon-jin's-smoothboard/msg5865/This guy sounds EXACTLY like me....but still couldn't get the wii remote to sync. I tried running Thex's auto connect program, but it seemed to no do anything.
4. I read a thread about this
http://www.shootingsoftware.com/Widcomm.htm . I found the bth file, as shown in my previous post screen shot and added the line as described. However, I don't think I got the correct hardware ID. Looking at my device manager, I do not see a generic USB place as people are describing. This is what i'm working with (Windows XP Home Edition Service Pack 3 btw)

BEN,
I right clicked on the Broadcom place at the top of my device manager and went to UNINSTALL DRIVERS, but whenever I plug the usb adapter back in, the Broadcom thing shows up again in Device Manager.
More details on what and where to uninstall would be greatly appreciated.